The last time my mum and dad came out together before my dad passed away in 2014 was November 2012.
We had decided before they came out that we would celebrate Christmas the day after my dads birthday, which was 24th November, so the 25th seemed appropriate.
As he was struggling badly with memory problems we thought it would be a good idea to give him another family Christmas because we knew he would never manage to come back out to visit again.
We didn't go as far as the whole buying and handing out gifts but we went all out on the other Christmas day things..cooked a big Christmas lunch, played Christmas music, wished everyone a Merry Christmas (the neighbours must have thought we had gone mad!!), set the table with Christmas attire, wrote a menu for him and pulled crackers. Bless him, he really got into the Christmas spirit as did we all, it was actually fun having two Christmases that year, and knowing we will always have that 'last' Christmas memory with dad/granda is something we will always cherish.
Merry Christmas darling dad and Happy Birthday 💙 we miss you.
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